You have not got it on xxx personals westerly rhode island your own We guys in australia are just used for the sperm to fertilize the eggs and when the are born, we are served papers . Personally as i have been throuigh all of this, i would like to those women out there that have all this in the back of their mind suffer like us dads. I would not wish them dead as that is far too easy and they then feel no pain .What i would want is the same as the prisoners received in Japan in WW2 with slices of bamboo wedged under their fingernails and toenails so the pain is horrific. hanibal lector is mild in my eyes..That way the cuticals of those 10 fingers and 10 toes suffer so much pain as we dads have done by them really only wanting to open their legs to other men to do the same again and again and again .Family court is only on the womans side so i suggest you men out there dont waste your money and let the woman suffer . You wont get visitation to the , just the same as i had hardly any and that has corrupted my way of thinking now . If the want to the dads, then they do it on their own Just remember you dads, bring the home 5 minutes early that you are supposed to as if you dont, your ex use those couple of minutes late after the arranged time as a breech of court order .My ex waited at the door everytime with a camera and her arm in the shot to prove if i was late or early..Once due to a red light, i was minutes late after cerfew and she sued me for breech iof court orders. Courts no shades of grey and only look at the black and white situation. There is no need to make the lawyers any richer than what they are. You dads know if the want to you or not and if not. The mothers not allow you any sort of information about the like medical history, school reports, etc etc so why bother. Even if it written in the orders I really in years to come when the ( anyones ) get older, they leave their mothers and never them again. This be like placing a fishook in their moms heart, twisting it around to grab as much flesh and meat as possible and then pulling it out fast so it rips her insides to shreds Remember this is my opinion and dont forget .opinions are just like a h o l e s as everybody has one have a nice day